One of the most important jobs I have as a mother is teaching my children to be hard working, independent, responsible people.
Its also a job that takes a lot of work and consistency!! Not such an easy thing when I want to be doing so many other things. I talked last week about all the things I would love to learn about and accomplish right now. REALLY, my plate is full with keeping my kids engaged in things that teach values and build character. I'm not saying I shouldn't do things for myself or develop my talents. I know that is important. I just need to find a very strong and consistent balance.
I think it is so easy to put my family on automatic pilot. Within this age of technology I see the burden I have of teaching my children good old fashioned values because life is just so easy these days. I could go whole week doing all the things I please and I'll I'd have to do is stick my kids in front of the TV, let them have free reign on the computer, or stick them in every extra program available. I think there's a HUGE need for me to simplify the list I have and really concentrate on my family. I know that sometimes they aren't my first priority. I'll admit it. I want to accomplish things that aren't really something I have time to accomplish in this season of my life.
Back in the old days when America was filled with rural towns and homes I think people were better people. Families had to work together to put a meal on the table. Parents and children, sisters and brothers, worked side by side and played together. There seemed to be less distractions. I found some tips listed below on how to raise children of character. Sometimes I wish I could transport my little family back in time. I wouldn't want to lose the conveniences I have now but I really think it would be much easier to grow children with strong moral character. I think back then it happened naturally because their lives were full of many more character building opportunities. It takes a lot more effort to make it happen on purpose these days.
I found THIS site that gives 10 TIPS FOR RAISING CHILDREN OF CHARACTER.
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Thanks for sharing this list, Kim. Sometimes I look back on my day and wonder, "Did I really spend ANY quality time with my kids today? Did I even hear them and really listen to what they had to say?" Thankfully, not every day is like that, and we can always do a little better. You are a great mother!!
ReplyDeletei like tip #9, the family meal. does anybody do that anymore?
ReplyDeleteI was just talking to my sister about this today. I want my kids to know how to work hard and I don't feel like we have been teaching them that....because it is HARD WORK. :) So I too am going to be putting forth much more effort into THEM.
ReplyDeleteYour right, Kim....you and I are definately thinking the same thoughts.
ReplyDeleteI agree that there was a simplicity about the old days that helped families to keep a closer and stronger bond. And I think you're right, it has to do with the fact that they HAD to work together to keep their homes running successfully. Everyone had to do their part.
You and I have got to hang out. I think that I would learn a lot from you :)
{I see that my brother left you a comment up there!}
I think we do have to get together! Getting a comment from your brother was a nice surprise.
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