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Every morning I wake up with a head full of things to do. I scramble around trying to put them in lists of importance all while trying to keep the peace within my little brood (trying to recall everything I've learned and read about parenting at the same time.) I love being a wife and the quirks that come with having my man forever. I love to be creative and thrive on crossing off my to do list. I strive to find balance and put first things first which brings me PEACE & JOY and allows me to sleep so much easier when I do. I think that one of the secrets to being HAPPY in life is to find that balance. I'm learning how to be kinder to myself and learning patience in progress. Everyday, through the thick and thin of life I'm trying to turn my heart towards heaven and remember what's really important.Oh, and I love to eat, so much so that I love to exercise too.

6.28.2008

Thoughts on my birthday

I get these kind of thoughts emailed to me. They're called "Healthy Reflections".

The real measure of your contributions

What is accomplishment? Is it measured by the number of zeroes in your salary? By status or your level of fame? Or could success possibly come from the number of lives you touch? In today's world, where people are famous just for being famous, it's easy to get caught up in the quest for being noticed and appreciated. People and ideas can be trampled along the way if nobody looks out for them. If leaving a legacy is important to you, it should not come at the expense of your values. If you let it, you'll end up leaving a legacy you didn't want, and that kind of defeats the purpose doesn't it? The greatest and most noble acts are the ones that are done when we think no one is looking. When you stop expecting thanks or anything in return, your contribution is more welcome than ever. The irony is that the nicer you are, the more important you become.

I want so much to be appreciated and honored in my life. This thought was especially fitting as today is my birthday. I got some unwelcome news about my mom's health yesterday, and today as I ponder on her life, as well as my own, I'm overjoyed with a sense of peace in the direction my life is going and hope to continue in righteousness, relying more heavily on the Lord.

My mom dropped by last night and brought me a homemade strawberry cheesecake- my favorite. (She doesn't have hardly any energy and I'm sure it wasn't easy to make it for me.) She also gave me a card that said this:

You're such a dear daughter and wonderful mother, its no wonder you're loved so much. It takes a very talented and loving person to handle everything that you do. In your busy life, you're many things to lots of people, and to our family, you'll always be very special. You're a daughter to be proud of. Hope you know on your birthday how much you're loved and how much you're wished the very best of everything.

mom wrote: Always remember how special you are to me. You are about the same age I was when you were born! You are a wonderful daughter and I love you. Thank you for your support. I appreciate you.

dad wrote: Happy Birthday Sis. You are a sweet beautiful daughter. You will always be my first baby girl. My sweet "lil" Kimi Sue Pumpkin. Remember, you only pas this way once. Save a little time for yourself and your husband. love you bunches, Dad

... and yeah, I cried when I read this.



One more thought...



Don't just count your years, make your years count!

9 comments:

  1. Happy Birthday Kimi. I remembered you first thing this morning. I hope you have the best of days and may you get to do something you have been wanting too.

    I love your thoughts and you seem to always want to be improving yourself and your life. I really think that is a great mind set.

    Take care and have a great weekend with family and friends.

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  2. Happy Birthday Kim!!!!!! I hope you have an awesome day! You totally deserve it. Are we getting together for it or anything? Oh, and thanks for adding the "wonderful" in front of SIL! :) Love ya!

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  3. Happy Birthday Kimi dear! I hope you have a wonderful day!

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  4. Yah stinky friend I am !!! Happy Birthday!! If it makes you feel any better I have forgotten my moms birthday three years running now- I did actually send here some willow tree figurines to make up for it this year and she said that I can forget it three more years If I send her something that nice after the three years!!

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  5. I'm sorry to hear about your mom. I love your quotes, and your strength. Believe me, you make a difference in peoples lives. Your kids and husband and mom and dad sure love you, and look at all us faithful bloggers!

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  6. Hi. You responded to my blog a while back, and I'm catching up. I really liked your quotes on this entry and the previous one. Don't we all want to know that what we're engaged in matters and is appreciated. I'm constantly finding that someone else is doing exactly what I've always dreamed of doing -- already filling that niche. But no one else can fill my motherhood niche. It's completely mine. Thanks for the reminder.

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  7. Ok, so, so weird. I left a comment, I know I did, I was just going to say hi again.

    I hope you had a wonderful and memorable day! I love birthdays!!!

    Happy Belated Birthday! xoxo

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  8. I just wanted to say hi.I hope that you guys are enjoying the trek. We went to grandma's today and got to spend some time getting to know your girls, it was a blast. They are both so darn cute! Anyway we will talk to you guys later :)

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