We've decided that we weren't not going to wait much longer to move. The bathroom we added is nearly finished, and we have to do a few more major cosmetic fixes. After these are done we'll put it up for sale. I don't want to use an agent, I'm pretty sure we can sale it ourselves. I'm scared though, I'm afraid we might do something wrong, and I know its going to be a lot of work. Especially with 4 little ones, church callings, and just everyday life things.
It really would have been financially better to live here 2 more years. I really wanted to put about 35-40% down on our next house. We should have 20% though. We decided that our kids need a better environment. My oldest is getting to the age where he wants to hang out with anyone close to his age and the kids around here just aren't the kind of kids I want him around on a regular basis. The winter months have been easier to keep him away but with it getting warmer he's already asking to go play. The biggest threat is the boy across the street that is in middle school and is starting to act like he's part of a gang. My boys love playing with him but he and his brother (whose older) are getting to old. I think that they might be involved in gang stuff.
Its so sad and scary to look around and see that kids aren't not being brought up in good homes. I went to rent a movie last night. (Fly Boys I really liked it). There was a girl that I went to school with who was a couple of years older. She had five kids and looked to be single. She didn't look good at all. She was swearing and letting her son who looked to be 10 or 11 grab "Texas Chain Saw Massacre". On the way home I thought about how thankful I am for the principles and values I know and understand. I might not always be the best mom, but I know that I am trying and Jeff is a wonderful example to my kids. I've never heard him swear. I'm so thankful that I have him to help me.
He's going to be working super hard to get this house ready. Yesterday he mudded the bathroom, and did some framing. Its amazing to me that he can go down there and just whip up a wall. I would have to read a book and go to a class for a semester to learn how to build a wall. Sometimes when we are trying to communicate I wish that his brain worked more like mine, but for the next few months I am soooo glad that he's got that brain of his. He's saved us so much money with his natural ability to do just about anything he wants to figure out. This is one of things I really love about him.
- Kim
- Every morning I wake up with a head full of things to do. I scramble around trying to put them in lists of importance all while trying to keep the peace within my little brood (trying to recall everything I've learned and read about parenting at the same time.) I love being a wife and the quirks that come with having my man forever. I love to be creative and thrive on crossing off my to do list. I strive to find balance and put first things first which brings me PEACE & JOY and allows me to sleep so much easier when I do. I think that one of the secrets to being HAPPY in life is to find that balance. I'm learning how to be kinder to myself and learning patience in progress. Everyday, through the thick and thin of life I'm trying to turn my heart towards heaven and remember what's really important.Oh, and I love to eat, so much so that I love to exercise too.
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WOW! How exciting. You going to move by me?? Good luck, and let me know what I can do to help. And I promise selling your house really isn't that hard!!
ReplyDeleteHow great!!! Are you already looking for a new place? I think you made a good decision...nothing's more important than getting your kids in the best place possible. Good luck getting the house ready to sell!
ReplyDeleteHi kim! I think you will be so much happier living somewhere where you are more comfortable! It was good to talk to you the other day. I think we really need to do more. Good luck getting your house ready! Its kind of fun in a wierd crazy way!
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